Parents should 'trust gut instinct' on leukaemia

Sophie Clark Jaxson in a hospital room with no hair, a tube coming out of his nose, and attached to a small machine on a stand. He is wearing a t-shirt saying 'Fighter'Sophie Clark
Jaxson had three years of treatment for acute lymphoblastic leukaemia

A mother whose son was told he may have mumps when he actually had leukaemia has said it is important for parents to be able to recognise the symptoms.

Jaxson Clark, from Tytherington, South Gloucestershire, was three years old when he became unwell in 2020 with lumps on his neck, a limp and constant nose bleeds.

His mum, Sophie Clark, got Jaxson referred to Bristol Children's Hospital, where he was correctly diagnosed with acute lymphoblastic leukaemia and had three years of treatment before being given the all-clear in February last year.

"My message is to trust your gut instinct as no one knows your child as well as you do, so keep pushing," Ms Clark said.

Sophie Clark Jaxson standing in a hall in front of a stage with a red velvet curtain, in the middle of a circle of orange, gold and white balloons and some squares spelling 'Jaxson' gold ribbonsSophie Clark
Jaxson, now eight, got the all-clear in February last year

Ms Clark told BBC Radio Bristol she spoke to the hospital, explained his symptoms, and was told to bring him "straight in".

"His legs were alarming me a lot as he was moaning about a lot of leg pain, and I thought 'that's not normal, he's got a limp, it's clearly not normal'," she said.

Sophie Clark Jaxson hugging his sister, Bella. They are both smiling to camera with a Christmas tree in the background.Sophie Clark
Jaxson, and his younger sister, Bella, were supported by the Rainbow Trust

Jaxson was ill during the Covid-19 pandemic and Ms Clark said she suspected it was unlikely to be mumps, partly because Jaxson had been unable to socialise, and he had also had the MMR (measles, mumps and rubella) vaccination.

"In my head, I was like 'no, it's not mumps, it can't be mumps'. We didn't even do the swab kit because it didn't arrive until four days later, and we'd already found out that it was leukaemia," she said.

Jaxson needed treatment lasting three-and-a-half years, which included chemotherapy, lumbar punctures, bone marrow transplants and CT scans.

Ms Clark and her husband, Mitch, who also have a younger daughter, Bella, said their life "was turned completely upside down".

Sophie Clark Sophie sitting at a computer with her Instagram account showing. Sophie Clark
Ms Clark now raises awareness of the disease amongst other parents on Instagram

They were supported by the Rainbow Trust, a charity that helps families who have a child, aged 0-18 years old, with a life-threatening or terminal illness.

"What we do is support the whole family, so that's not just Jaxson, because he's the referred child, or the poorly child, but we offer the sibling - which in this case is Bella - support and play games," said family support worker, Wendy Britt.

"We also offer emotional support to Sophie and do transport to medical appointments."

Ms Clark started an Instagram account, called Jaxson's Journey, shortly after his diagnosis.

At first it was a way of keeping family and friends informed, but now she uses it to raise awareness of leukaemia and the signs, and to encourage parents to seek more medical advice if they feel something is wrong.

"Blood cancer is a difficult one to notice, there's not enough awareness and sometimes GPs get it wrong," Ms Clark said.

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