Cafes 'breaking silence' on climate change

Rebecca Nestor A table in a meeting room covered with items from the natural world such as acorns, twigs and rocks. There are also glasses and a water bottle on it. Some pictures are hanging on the green wall behind it.Rebecca Nestor
Rebecca Nestor established the climate cafes after the hot summer in 2018

Sessions in cafes which discuss climate change are helping "break the silence" on the issue, the coach who set them up has said.

Rebecca Nestor, who facilitates so-called climate cafes in Oxford, said the group meetings were spaces for people to talk about climate change without involving topics about taking specific actions or "debating science".

She said the conversations provided "a sense of connection and community solace".

Participant Bryony Parrish said she found the sessions were "helpful to step outside of daily life".

Rebecca Nestor A close-up of Rebecca Nestor standing in front of a hedge. She is wearing glasses.Rebecca Nestor
Ms Nestor set up "safe spaces" for people to discuss climate issues

Ms Nestor said she noticed people beginning to talk about climate change during the hot summer of 2018 when "the grass was brown and the trees were struggling".

She decided to use concept of "safe spaces" for groups of about 10, lead by two facilitators.

"There is then a more free flowing discussion - people might be angry, very anxious or a bit despairing.

"What we find is that being able to say that out loud with other people, who are maybe feeling similar, is just incredibly supportive and it gives people a sense of connection and community solace."

She said their climate cafes had "quite a diverse representation" and discussions included topics such as the typhoons in South East Asia.

She said climate issues can make people "feel helpless, concerned and not knowing what to do".

"Having an approach that tries to break that silence is necessary and that's what climate cafes do."

Ms Nestor said the meet-ups did not involve talk about climate action, science, or government policy.

"The idea is that people, who have only recently discovered this is a serious thing, don't feel too embarrassed about not having done anything so far."

She said the cafes attracted people of all ages, which created "very touching and quite painful" discussions between generations.

"The young people are ... typically not angry with the older people so shame and guilt can be really thought about in the group."

Bryony Parrish Bryony Parrish smiling for the camera while sitting in a tree. There is a body of water underneath.Bryony Parrish
Bryony Parrish was among those attending the climate cafes

Among those taking part, Ms Parrish, who lives on the Cowley Road, said she found it "heart-opening".

"There was also that ritual of taking items from the natural world [such as] plants, stones, twigs and other things, and talking about what it meant to you.

"I found this quite helpful to step outside of daily life.

"I think it's all quite hopeful to experience that sense of connection with other people."

The climate cafes run on alternate months at Common Ground in Little Clarendon Street and the North Wall Arts Centre on South Parade, and bi-monthly at the Rosehill Community Centre.

Rebecca Nestor A table in a meeting room covered with items from the natural world such as acorns, twigs and rocks. There is also a coffee cup on it. Chairs surround the table. A sign above the door reads Rose Hill and Donnington Advice Centre. The flags of multiple countries are placed above it.Rebecca Nestor
Ms Nestor said she would like more climate cafes to open in Oxford